I know shell never leave me for him but its just him i dont trust because he does still want and tries to get her back but he says "hes happy that im with her making her happy" which i know is a lie but still. He is fighting hard to prevent his daughter from taking his last name. All Rights Reserved. You must log in or register to reply here. Maybe pack some bags and get a hotel to give them even more family time. Our baby is now 3 years old. My car is in the shop right now, so I know that times get rough, but usually when we're down, we at least wish we weren't. Following this- she started talking to her ex more and more. If they have no romantic feelings towards each other and get along I don't see an issue. man im goin thru almost the same situation right now, im pretty stumped my self sorry. So, her baby daddy uses her/his child against her as well. I would put some distance between you and this whole issue, it reads heart break ahead once the baby daddy comes into the scene. In your circumstances, since you're already in the child's lifeyou need to put your foot down and get involved with those family outings, your gf should support you 100% on that. in fortnite chapter 2, season 6 gameplay subscribe & click the bell! For the most part, he is a good father, he just simply won't move on and it's destroying our relationship. It is easier to get your baby father back if there isn't another woman in his life. She just had the rotten luck of getting pregnant (by him, not saying pregnancy is rotten luck) and finding out AFTER she left him. its just that my girlfriend dad was never there for her he ran out on them and she doesnt want that for the baby but idk how to tell her because i try but she just thinks that its me being jealous and saying i dont trust her to do it. The baby deserves a baby role model Peace. Thanks. Reddit and its partners use cookies and similar technologies to provide you with a better experience. and I know it's best to have him in the picture for the girls. now everything was I mean spot on .we had it down right.she told me never to hurt her and that's she asked of me .me the same & that every problem we had we'd fix together and not fall out.. We are living in a mobile home. Emma!" Daddy's grip gets tighter and tighter, it began to hurt and I cry out again - Daddy's eyes grow wide and he lets me go, as if he is frightened. What part of 903 she from? I will be there for my son no matter what! you take of ya kid kuddos I wont get in ya way. BabyDaddyDrama 9 years ago lol thats a good one but no life is too short to waste it on fighting for a girl i learned that if she has to decide who she wants to be with then let her be with him because she never loved you at all if she has to choose #im nobodys second choice reply #14 joel 8 years ago Don't get me wrong. Naturally- this upset me. They are trying to hang on to what little they can control by being dramatic and getting some type of energy from your spouse and you. Just a gut feel and my gut feel is usually spot fucking on. Them three will be taking a hike together in couple of days. Since day one, the ex has not left her alone. It may not display this or other websites correctly. I dated my sons father for six years, five years before I found out I was going to have his child! Women get with these men and get pregnant and want other men to be real fathers never thinking of all the drama we end up having to deal with. There are probably people who want to kill him because he owes them money. In the meantime, flirt with him a little, keep the mood light, and see where . That is ****! We are in the exact same boat. In the first year or so after you lose your Dad, people might tell you that the holidays "Are a time to remember your loved one.". So I have this boyfriend who is a baby daddy. Danielle, if you would like to leave the contact information for your national talk show, you can fill out the form in the contact us page and ask permission with the site operators. But making the wrong decision will end up with you spending time in jail or dead while she this beef between her and him continue. Again- when I tried to explain how I felt- she got extremely mad again and accused me of interfering with her sons life- and that she's doing everything she's doing for her son to be happy. I was assured I would have his help and support. My girlfriends CRAZY BABY DADDY (HELP!!!!! U sure u want to be in amongst all that drama op? You are using an out of date browser. His gf doesn't even know we spend as much time as we do together as a family.so to answer your question.You should be able to go with them where ever they gothat should not be a matter. But the question you aren't facing here is that she the girl you are with chose willingly to lay down and have sex with this man until she conceived his child. I love my dad but I've made a lot better choices in my life and am more like my mother and step father which is a far better alternative. To spend the day with you as a family on a family day shouldnt be an issue. Dont do it! But I didnt believe her, this man had loved me since college, he would never hurt me like that. . I know myself, for one, I would not be getting involved with a woman that has children, because the bond with the father of their baby, especially her first, will always be there. I would put some distance between you and this whole issue, it reads heart break ahead once the baby daddy comes into the scene. They are your children. OK I hope you still read this and honestly by now I hope the situation has gotten better. But you now the story, right? i mean i trust her completly and understand they just trying to maintain a healthy freindship for there daughters sake. And before me- she was with the baby daddy for 4 years. Next week's blog will focus on the child support matters with new girlfriends or boyfriends. Instead, he wanted to see me have sex with another man. Anything I say regarding it is always the wrong thing and just starts a humongous fight so I don't even say anything to it now. The "grand gesture" is often not that grand. Or am I in the wrong? I'm in the same situation and need advice myself- I've been dating this girl for a year now and fell for her. I was totally out of ideas when a few months before his birthday he asked a question that would change my life forever. Seriously don't sit around waiting for something bad to happen. OKAY MY BABY-DADDY HAS A GIRLFRIEND BUT HE ALWAYS TXTN ME AN Will my baby daddy ever come back to me and his daughter?? At age 3, my uncle made me lick his penis "like a lollypop.". But if your knocking on my door at 11 pm it has nothing to do with her. you say a mother should not start seeing someone else if the father leaves.that its not a good example.so wat if the father left to be with someone else.he breakes up a family and gets his *****.and then still gets to play daddy.and mums just got to sit at home raising her child and lonely.and you say other people are posting nonsense. Come to the wrong place for sympathy brehs, you cant fukk with a single mom unless her BD is a decent dude, Get marked by a light skin nikka on a bozy Monday afternoon. I'm reading these posts and honestly.. My ex who I have a 2 month old son with, has decided to go back to her ex from 2 years ago. Soon the time came for us to fulfill his fantasy, all we needed was a man. A mutually supportive community where deeply emotional things you can't tell people you know can be told. I mean hes so lazy he wont even do the things that you're not supposed to do for money. Will my baby daddy ever come back to me and his daughter?? And i plan on living and being happy. I just hope one day when she gets older she can forgive me and listen when I tell her that its okay to not do what the other woman will. Signs of a father being a narcissist include if he is self-centered, vain, does not take criticism well, demands perfection, and goes into rages. If you eventually go out with her, you will regret it. I told him they wouldn't do it. I've met a lot of dead beats, but this guy is the true definition of it. I'm honestly going through the same thing.we definitely need to.talk so.we.can help each other out with this problems, By entering this site you declare The ex on the other hand refuses to meet me. A real man would step up while you were dating and during the entire relationship and before you got pregnant. This site uses cookies to help personalise content, tailor your experience and to keep you logged in if you register. He uses his daughter as a means to mentally abuse my girlfriend and even tries to get her to resent her mom. She is a great mother and doesn't keep her from him but the only reason he has anything to do with his child is so he can have a reason to harass my girlfriend. Get over yourselves, work on your issues and let the **** father see his little one. I was in this situation with my daughters dad but I told that ***** I aint got time for that sometimes women don't see that ignorant side come out until we get pregnant matter of a fact 80% of the time they are perfect gentlemen before you get pregnant you can be with them for a month a year or more some men just freak out when they find out they have a kid my daughters dad tried everything to make my life a living hell because I was dating someone new and I was scared as hell I would end up single and this mf would be on to the next chick so I changed my number I moved to another city and got myself straight thankfully the guy I am with stuck with me through it all and now we have been married a year and my daughter is almost 3 she only knows my husband as dad because my daughter doesn't need anyone negative in her life Malcolm x once said having sex don't make you father it just makes you a ***** donor being a positive influence and role model makes you a father it is a title that is to be earned and not given. She is the one who puts up with this if he is not helping her financially, why the F would she let him see the kid? she said I still don't know I had to leave so she said I'll text you .then she texts me aand she Says I'm not tryna make you feel like I'm dissing you I'm not mad at you at all.. He has no legal authority to take the child without a court order. Was it my boyfriend or some man whose name I didnt even know? My advice, leave drama world. Usually violence is the answer contrary to popular belief, but it'll get me nowhere in this situation, and I'm stumped. This situation is crazy. I'm 33 and she's 29. I'm like aw man not this..but I don't say anything about it .but she does. i dont know what to do. The baby deserves a baby role model Peace reply #4 Joe 13 years ago I mean it in a nice way, I'm totally with you on this journey! i mean me and the guy will never get along but i just want to go because im in her and the babys life now too. It may not display this or other websites correctly. Be strong. I feel so insecure. The Coli - The Best Hip Hop, Rap, Sports Forum and Message Board. in my point of view, the woman you are dating may still have a thing for the father of her child. My girlfriends baby daddy will not quit trying to get her back, By entering this site you declare I've read here before, but never posted. honestly i want my son to know who his father is because kids don't understand concept of broke **** bums. Move far away with your gf and the kid. For now I just focus on loving her. LISTEN to the advice. Then I stared at her little face wondering how I will explain who her daddy is? Tiny flexible girl gets massive creampie. Do not have anything do with girls who have kids and exes. Can my boyfriend still love his baby mama? My parents are kicking me (18/M) out by months end. Howdy yall, any tips on dealing with significant others baby daddy. He happened to turn a corner and hear Lisa making a scene, so he answered, "Jessie is Julian's girlfriend . If **** hits the fan you want to be able to make a case for self defense and not go to jail. And I say she won't and she says she hasn't decided but like me I already felt she had.. idk if its because I had been dreading it all night .but yeah so the day goes on she's seems even more distant and I just can't help myself by saying texting please don't break up with me I love you .and I don't know if youre going back to him then you tell me but she's says no I'm not leaving you for him its just she wants to get focused on her son and make him happy and I swear stranger I get that but she wasn't telling me a straight answer of we were broken up or not . girlfriends baby daddy come over for holidays and spend the day with us as a family is ok? It may sound mean, but I would have charged her to the game. "Baby you still have five more but I'll make them quick ones sweety" he says calmly. There are a number of reasons people get back together with cheaters. 239 Logan Paul Criticizes Jake Paul's Vicious Nate Robinson KO https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u87klhFoZxg&t=709s&pbjreload=101&ab_channel=Imp. well, it is not your child, not your ex. I have my mom and older sister cut off. How do you deal with someone who has NOTHING? Why my baby daddy keep begging for sex?!!!!! Don't give him any excuse such as domestic violence. thats what i said and almost everytime they talk it ends up them arguing. My Ex Girlfriend wants a BABY ( Fortnite ) emilee is daddy 238K subscribers Subscribe 8.4K 191K views 10 months ago #ad #fortnite #gamergirl "How Many Likes Can We Get? Your ex keeps explaining the breakup and/or apologizing. . I rather put a third party between us.Cause seriously people get hurt or die because of this. A lot of the time, the girl needs time to grow and figure out what she wants and needs for her child, but she wont get a chance if she gets into another relationship right away. I am in the same situation with my daughters father. Create an account to follow your favorite communities and start taking part in conversations. My girlfriends baby daddy beat her and kicked her out, and kept her child. Here are 4 signs he wants you back but won't admit it (yet). Our commitment to showcasing the best and brightest as well as highlighting disparities in Black life has been, and will always be, cornerstone to EBONY. He is staying at someones duplex, we dont know who's, but its definitely not his. I played my boyfriends plans off as my own and lured the beautiful stranger in. Or, she is going to want to rebel and look for a "bad boy.". The doctor revealed my conception date and I was horrified. My girlfriends baby daddy will not quit trying to get her back By Rapidrelex, 6 years ago on Family 3,071 I've been with my girlfriend (who has a four year old)for two years. And I'm also feeling like she's helping her ex out more and more. I feel so insecure. You are not married. She told me that I have no right to feel the way I feel because her ex is the child's father. Jun 19, 2012 OK so Ive been in a committed relationship with my GF for about 5 months. He can't be around cause he makes it about me so lets leave it up to the courts.As much as i hate to do that. We arent seeing others so we have a fwb situation. Im not breaking up with my bf or gf, its not his fault my bd wants to fight him, my bd is just an abusive AH who wants to control everything I do and everyone I see. Kick if you fall to the ground. Real gangstas dont post ***** threats on **** made websites designed for women and **** made *nucca*$ such as your homewrecking self homie ask the kid if he wants u around its not about u ****, Yo thats crazy yo i kno i dont kno u at all but i feel we can help each other out since we got the same problem my name is shayrod i im goin threw the same exact thing or u can txt me. If she does answer the phone to ask him to watch his son he's cursin her out for no reason at all or askin for money which he would never get from her in a million years. Hunter Biden fathered a daughter with ex-lover Lunden Roberts. you may say I was wrong but say playa you aint taking care of ya kid it aint my fault. email me if you don't mind. If he has no money, job, or car, how will he find you? Im only 5'4 so i feel i have to defend myself. He calmed down for a little after that but once again he's back to the same old tricks. This article will focus upon child custody and parenting time matters. I am soo embarrassed. He has NOTHING to his name, but the stolen clothes on his back. But dont be like everyone else if you dont have to and end up as a stastistic in jail. So my girlfriend is technically still legally married. He lives with his new girlfriend and her two-year-old son . She is a broken mess inside and out and the constant harassment has even caused us to breakup twice. Since 1945, EBONY magazine has shined a spotlight on the worlds of Black people in America and worldwide. She was qite abrupt with her response which fits her nature when someone burns her. I just want to know Am I in the right for being a little upset?? Wait for him to cross that line first and make sure you have witnesses who are on your side otherwise it is your word against his. And she didn't wanna give me a straight answer on what she wanted ..I hugged her that night and she didn't hug me the same way she use to. Because you need to let go, to be able to see yourself again! He calls her everyday and leaves voicemails callin her baby, and everything. Saying he loved her and ****. We aim to keep this a safe space. Wasn't ready to commit and lost her. Why my baby daddy keep begging for sex?!!!!! Tiffany. they use to when they were dating go out to like christmas in the park and stuff like that. She has no mom, no dad to help with child care, or living expenses so I guess I felt the need to be there and support her and her child. Just move on, she is using you. I cut school with him for a month straight. My FIANCE'S baby daddy.. (4 kids together one sadly deceased) is coming over just showing up now at our home, having dinner, smoking outside with her and here like all day unannounced saying his gf dont understand him and all this jazz. It might be a good idea to be friendly with him and get to know him because he will always be in her life due to them sharing a child. If he still refuses, you might need to enlist the help of family members in your cause. Leave town if possible! and about to take him shopping and then I asked what he had on that ticket and he hung up, sob aint called no more. Thats a given. she could be civil to him and talk to him if he visits her son but its a whole different matter if they talk on the phone for three hours! After all, his conversation with her is over. I've been with my girlfriend (who has a four year old)for two years. Netflix. My girlfriends CRAZY BABY DADDY (HELP!!!!!). Even if the mum and her new guy end up together, the child's father will always be in the picture one way or another, and quite simply that needs to be accepted. I'm here with you bro. Accept it, in order to let go. Here are 5 signs your baby daddy wants you back. It is said that a woman can judge a man based on how he treats his mother. (a poor excuse to get back in) but too late cause big daddy is on the case now anyway his son's birthday was 07/11/2010 and on 07/10/2010 me and this clown got into a phone altercation so I told dude like this,ya only get one warning homie.you can do for your kid or not don't care I work everyday for the bread plus I make music recordings for different people.I aint going no wheres so stop disrespecting the relationship she and I have and move around. Especially with a young child. "Well". When she drops her son off, if she forgets to leave her purse at home, he'll find a way to steal her wallet somehow because he likes to act like he's going to get his son out of the carseat, but actually sit in the front seat and harass her. There is nothing wrong with you and I believe you care about your girlfriend, but the big question here is to you. I accompany her sometimes, but hang back where he cant see, just for her protection. Girlfriend and baby daddy drama, please help! That tells them "I can have a baby and if i don't like the Daddy or he leaves I will find another man to fill the void". visitation and support for the baby. you are 18 or older, you read and agreed to the. Need help with your relationship? im in the exact same situation this loser doesnt participate and tells my girl his son needs a daddy Be the bigger man and show that by example. 10. Petite teen girl tight bald pussy nude. Don't listen to any false promises, because when it comes to choosing who goes where, the love that made that child outweighs **** around for a couple of months. He hit on her a couple of weeks and she told him shes in a happy relationship and how it makes her uncomfortable that he made that comment. now how a lawyer and is fighting for custody saying she abandoned her son. It hurts so much..im in love with my baby daddy and he's crazy, Girlfriends being friends with baby daddy's. Hey Carlos I read your post and it seems like the baby dad is just giving her the guilt trip and he is messing with her head and trying to get into her brain and control it and she's weak to even let that happen but just because he sees her happy and moved on and see a man treating her right other then him he's jealous. I prayed hard for the father of my daughter to be my ex, but the joke was on me when the results confirmed that a nameless figure was the father of my child. This could mess up your girlfriend's chances of keeping custody. I dont see that being ok. My baby daddy wants to fight my boyfriend, my landlord is trying to bogusly evict me, and I want to quit my job because I have a terrible boss. Same **** is happening to me right now. Video from Ep. Florida law provides for an injunction in cases of . she has to quit letting him control ****. and its hard for us women especially to take a boy away from his father but once hes hurting our kid and not helping its time to change things. my girlfriends dad wants to fight me. Child support is ordinarily paid to the parent that has the majority of the parenting time with a child. girlfriends dad wants me to fight him. Hey Carlos sorry for very late response I forgot I had this until I went through a email lol but I read your comment and I can tell you it hurts like hell I know but everyone walks there own path in life if she wants to walk the wrong path then you got to let her man there too many girls out there that deserve the love we can provide I know I found another beautiful woman who I want to spend the rest of my life with she takes care of me and I take care of her. they just know thats my daddy and hes effing awesome. Who doesnt want to keep their man happy? 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