Take a few days away from everything. First, I am so sorry she made those statements for whatever the reason. Couple of things: I have a very close group of girlfriends. Fuck her. If everything else is great, and she is genuinely remorseful, and willing to work on your relationship, I don't see why you should write off your life together. I'm not sure what her motivation was with not being up front with you about all of this, especially the telling her friends of your sexuality. Your refusal to do so speaks to your character. Even if it is a stay vacation somewhere near your home. And without trust, you have nothing. But one thing I have realized is that you should be proud of who you are as a person, sexual preferences included. She hurt you fucking badly. I've been married for 21+ years. Also you say you feel emasculated. Wouldnt your wifes friend be able to identify you anyway from the story? German Husband let Young Boy Fuck his Wife in Threesome 14:30. Don't go broadcasting it. I'd be worried what she would do if one or both of their kids are bi or gay. Especially the part where she acts like its a close call between you and Tom to her girlfriends. How you deal with this will depend on how you two communicate about it. There's a wide gulf between those that think that's okay and the rest of us. She did not need to provide more information. Relationship therapy, lots of work, regaining trust. But then she says.the only hurdle I had to get past with (me) was.well, you guys know.they all were kinda like mhmm as if to affirm they knew what she was talking about. Stand firm in that it wasn't okay to disclose private information that you didn't want to be made public. Cool off first of all. Next I called my wife. She let slip things that suggests she views OP inferiorly. I agree with this comment the most. Never yield to force; never yield to the apparently overwhelming might of the enemy. Maybe your wife didnt feel comfortable telling her friends that she enjoyed herself because she didnt want to be judged. HER?! People are too quick to run away from a marriage and give up when issues come up. Then lots of hard conversations and a come to Jesus with your wife. It seems she reserves honesty for her friends. If she does it again then it's a bigger issue but i'm sure this will be a big learning moment for her and you will both be in a better place for it. But she's obviously done it before - all her friends knew it was okay to discuss and laugh about while she joked about letting him do "gay" stuff while she fantasies about other men. I could never trust what to believe again. Good luck mate I hope you're able to get through this with no drama. The guys almost definitely do not give a fuck. Be kind anyway. She's probably embarrassed by that, and won't admit it to her friends fearing judgement. If you are honest, people may cheat you. Whether or not its just because she got caught, I dont know. He said his wife told him what happened and he wanted to let me know he doesnt give a shit about me being bi and thinks the while situation is fucked. Suggest you stay away for a bit and do some thinking about what you want and whether its possible for her to mend this damage and that you can accept her behavior and forgive her. Unfortunately as long as there are homophobic people out there, there is potential to damage his reputation. Divorce her. Thats pretty telling. Take the space you need & honor your feelings. Including mutual friends that were homophobic and a girl who hated my guts (and my ex totally knew about those things). If you feel this can be fixed, try couples counseling, but honestly I only see this ending one way. First off, sorry, if a man and woman are doing sexual things together, it isn't gay. But 2 years later she is still talking about your most sacred aspect of your personal life, by filling in her friends on the most private part of your life. Take your time, make sure you heal on your timeline not hers. What you say too each other is one thing but to the outside world your SO is the best cook lover protector whatever. I was pooping and you helped me push from laughing so hard. In our response, lies our growth and our freedom. I would 100% be considering divorce over this, if in OPs shoes. BigbigbigBIIIIG yikes. Names have been changed. Dont just jump straight to divorce. I am a firm believer that most things can be worked through. I'm sorry you went through this. How many people knew about it since she let it slip, considering she's telling the truth and it was only two years ago that she told somebody. They were talking about ex-boyfriends and how another mutual friend of them cheated on her husband with an ex-boyfriend because he was better in bed. Life is great and were very blessed. Whats the point in being in relationship, in a marriage if you can't have ALL of trust, loyalty, and respect. Also, the fact that she let her friends talk shit about him while she and OP are supposed to be in a happy marriage Damn, that says a lot. Stay strong man I can only hope you can move on from this with your confidence restored. But, she finally conceded maybe he was genuine. If she cant trust herself to keep her mouth shut around her friends when drunk, then she shouldnt drink around her friends. This is NOT on her timeline anymore. Your wife betrayed your trust, and knowingly let her friends make homophobic comments. So will she keep acting to her friends like she has a problem with it? She's lying to you to save face. We had a group of our friends over and as the night went on we all kind of busted out into little groups. No matter how stupid, stupid turnt I got, I would NEVER be in a state of mind to let such a personal, private thing slip out. Do those stupid things include degrading your bisexual SO to friends with homophobic views? It sounds like they were encouraging your wife and Tom to connect. My identity was something I held tight to my chest for years. Author Hazel McBride claimed that she's so "average-looking" that she feels uneasy around her more handsome husband in a now-viral TikTok. As an aside, in tandem I would "shore up" the masculine vibe (I'm reluctant to say it, but if shes confronted with sommething she may traditionally view as feminine then it will prove a great juxtaposition if you are more "direct and masculine" while shes going through this priocess). I'm a bisexual woman, and if my husband told his friends that he thinks of other women when we do more than vanilla sex, I'd tell him to go find less. 1.) Ive been with my partner for 5 years. I mean i think you can talk it out?? Their partners undoubtedly know about you. Idc about bros before hoes or chicks before dicks nonsense, when someone insults your partner behind their back its your responsibility to stand up for them, not agree with them and contribute to the drunk girl talk. Theres PLENTY of ways to do this in both confrontational and non-confrontational ways. I don't have anything else to say about it besides the fact that we're both happy with our sex life.". I used to drink to black out, and not one time did I let slip the secrets I held for my friends and family. Slipping up and sharing something very private about your husband is betrayal enough. People knowing that hes bi will damage his reputation? They honestly seem jealous if they care that much about what you enjoy sexually. I wouldnt let her off the hook easily, but we all say and do some dumb stuff and I think she deserves a chance make it up to you and resolve the situation. I (45M) have been married to my wife (45F) for 20 years. I agree, marriage counseling ASAP. And regarding the "I let it slip while drunk" part, she's still responsible for her acts while drunk, and if she isn't she shouldn't be drinking. Get your better halves and get the fuck out of my house I sniped as I tipped my fedora and winked at my wifes hottest friend who was clearly impressed by my rage erection that had partially split the seam in my relaxed fit Levi 501s. If alcohol was involved the first time she told them, maybe she was talking about it because she wanted to get a read on how her friends would react. Your wife IMMEDIATELY tried to gaslight you as soon as she found out you heard what she had said. I doubt your own friends would even care, they might tease you a little but thats what friends do. It doesn't matter if her friends judge her for things - she needs to stand up for you as her husband. I started putting a voice recorder in my wife's car after u caught her cheating. Telephone number: 0203222111, 0719012111 This opens up two main issues, and a third tangential one, as follows: In the first scenario: She crossed a boundary and (un)consiously violated your trust. I would not have been able to control myself the same way no doubt. Couples counseling could work but it may also not be necessary, you two could work on it together. She stopped criticizing after that. Go for a hike, go to a movie, whatever. Do not make them feel you're different because you're not! It actually did make me feel a little better. If thats true then she needs to work on her confidence to be herself around her friends and nit be pressured to say things to sound cool. But don't be shocked when prople know already. But we hung on. I will always defend my guy. Take a few more days. Wow dude, that sucks and I feel bad for you. It felt terrible. I am so pissed off on OP's behalf. It was lovely that the mate called you and said what he did. If a few drops of the ocean are dirty, the ocean does not become dirty. If this is a hurdle you feel like you cant get past, then work on it. I turned around and stormed off to our room. Id rather show my support. I would be so freaking upset & sad. Im so sorry, my jaw hit the floor reading this. One of my wifes friends was fairly insistent about her divorcing me but honestly it came from a genuine place, its a weird situation and if you cant see how happy we are, I cant blame you for not getting it. She may actually not understand your bisexuality because its been something she said shes fine with but never actually confronted. You have an issue, address it. Your wife's unfortunate refusal to do the same speaks to her character too. I was going to say something identical. I am floored you are the only person who has pointed this out. Who actually believes these? You know what Im talking about Im sure. I'd also put the missus on a yellow card and ask her to be more honest about the Tom thing; the fact he treated her badly and you're the opposite must be a good factor in staying together. I keep my composure as best I can and open the slider to the patio and poke my head out. Not the act itself. BS. Or no, either way it was gross as fuck. Do you actually believe that she didn't have any agency? Honestly, I don't know if I'd be able to get past never being able to trust her with personal stuff again. But she enjoys to embarrass you to her friends behind your back about it. Wife: " (my name) I dunno what your heard but it's not what" Me: " (wifes name) I know exactly what I heard." I turned around and stormed off to our room. I live in a fairly large Canadian metropolitan area, most guys I know and hang out with are even a little bi. she outed you, made cruel jokes about your guys sex life, and didnt shut down her friends for being homophobic/biphobic. Good luck. This post has reached one of our comment/karma limits. Itd be a dealbreaker for me. Your wives friends are just horrible little Voltures and spineless cowards, definitely go have that drink with your friend and have some time to just calm down and have a break from this shit show. How long have you been the butt of their homophobic jokes? Seriously? No. But something you might ask her about. Your wife have no sense of conjugality. If that partner had outed me to anyone, I would have never been able to trust them again. Frankly I would be more able to forgive infidelity than I would these kind of conversations. Implying that OP's "flaw" as husband material is because he not 100% straight and slept with men is homophobic. She needs to understand that at least. I agree with this comment as a bi person! How unattractive I feel. Your wife said that she accidently let slip two years ago you were bi. As long as you are honest with yourself then it will all work out. After some investigation the the psychologist and clinic consensus was that my mind was f***ed up. Funny thing she thought it would cheer me up to tell absolutely fucking everyone, just to cheer me up. Its unsettling that she would remain friends with people who dared to judge her in that way, and that she even tries to gain their approval by talking trash about the beautiful sex you two get to have together. Whatre you guys laughing about? I ask with a smile playing stupid. That's plain shitty. Your sexuality isn't really fodder to take the piss out of. I don't think she is disinterested in the guy, but I will say I don't tolerate that kind of weakness. This seems to be an unpopular opinion, but I kind of agree with you. Your marriage is between the two of you. I learned that it is usually a sign of people not sharing everything, not saying that is your situation, but she violated your trust and didnt even give you the courtesy of giving you the heads up. I heard their conversation. We have a dog and some goldfish. Don't let her victimize herself or try and guilt trip you. Just want to say the other husband is a stand up guy. Thats something she and you will have to work on because she shouldnt be embarrassed of it, but at the same time I kind of understand how she can buckle under the pressure of her friends opinions. She probably just wants to belong and is afraid to stand up to, i am guessing here, to friends with stronger personalities. A random guy you barely know has stuck more by you tonight than your own wife does on the regular. You need to learn how to deal with being outed and your stupid wife needs to understand the true ramifications for you. We may discuss, ask for suggestions, etc., but we don't laugh about one of us outing someone (not that we'd care) and trashing their sex life. If she truly care about your feelings, she would not have put you down to make herself look and feel better. Try marriage counseling and perhaps moving away for a new start. She brought her marriage outside where it shouldn't belong. You're married to the person who should MOST be on your side and she has completely betrayed you for a fucking laugh. I found out that Im extremely affects by stress, including fight at home. I'm sorry you're going through this but your wife is such a shit person man. What she did was so horrible. She betrayed your trust, and she makes fun of your sexuality to her friends? Shitty situation man. She told him that he was drunk and that no she hadn't told me. I'm not defending her actions. Seems to me that because of her indifference to your feelings, she needs to get rid of those friends because she emasculated you in front of them. So she made you the butt of their jokes eventho she actively takes part in your sexlife and enjoys it. There was also probably some truth to her bedroom comments. Best of luck. There are hundreds of roles people play all the time. MILF Teacher seduce to Fuck Anal by Young Boy 12:11. One of the things they dont tell you about relationships is that you gotta be able to stand up for your SO when the time comesso even if OPs wife doesnt actually believe all that and bent to peer pressure, that really sucks and Im sorry she feels that way with her friends, but she shouldnt be surprised if she loses her husband. Standard Group Plc HQ Office, The Standard Group Center,Mombasa Road. No real worries there. Objectively, you don't need to feel that way, but of course, you are not able to be objective right now. This is what I found out: She let my sexuality slip two years ago at a bachelorette party to her friends when she was completely shit faced and didnt remember till one of the girls made a joke about it and she freaked out and made them swear to never tell anyone she told them cause she knew how upset Id be. It won't repair the damage that's been done. She was prepared to throw you under the bus and make you the butt of a joke just to impress her friends? The other men were cowering in my path - perhaps it was the still throbbing splitting seams. You can't act if you don't know how you feel. Don't go silent on her. With women like you out there in the world, why the fuck would anyone settle for less? Wife talks shit to friends to be funny/gossip/have fun, and does not honor the trust that was placed in her. Let's give your wife the benefit of the doubt for a moment. Your wife really messed up. Im not at all saying you were wrong to stay and listen and your feelings are VALID. Take care of yourself, you have the right to take more time if you need it. German Young Boy Seduce Big Tit Step-Mom to Lost Virgin 16:20. Soooo. Id almost go with divorce but with the kids, I sincerely hope counseling is able to help. But it sounds like maybe those are friends of hers she should reconsider her position with. I don't know why you'd even give it a B-. 2) Your wife flat out lied about her grin and bear it attitude about your sex life regarding the "bi stuff" when she often initiates it. Her voice was strained and raspy. This. She said she thought about him and thinks they were young and made stupid mistakes. Shes outed you twice, once under influence and this time more than completely sober, then proceeded to loudly discuss your sex life in front of a judgemental group of biphobes who then proceeded to tell their SOs about it and are now probably telling anyone wholl listen about it. If she isn't willing to do both of those things, then she is proving she doesn't value you enough, or is sorry enough for the damage she's caused, to be worth staying with. Trust your gut, make the proper judgements, and most importantly bounce the fuck back. I dont air out our dirty laundry for anyone else to see, especially when it comes to sex. The real question on my mind is why is she friends with people who belittle you for your sexuality? My step-dad said, "I feel like I always have to watch what I have to say, and I shouldn't have to worry about . Who cares. This is the lesson: never give in, never give in, never, never, never, never -- in nothing, great or small, large or petty -- never give in except to convictions of honour and good sense. Now, this is fine! Im so lost. Me: Oh, does (friend) work with Tom? I said this as sarcastically as possible. Solve thid situation by TALKING let her explain herself and then tell her what you feel. If my wife did this, I doubt I'd ever care to be into intimate with her again. It actually did make me feel a little better. Even if it was a close call, you dont say that. Just the circles I run in a guess. Your story is isn't as violent, but its just as embarrassing and horrifying to hear. If my bf were you, I'd imagine he would do the same exact thing. Thats punishment enough for some. Dont just accept her apology and move on. Id also like to see those fun-o-phobes pack their bags and get out of your wifes life. Women get cold feet around marriage, but she decided to be with you. When you have a PARTNER that partner should be in your corner 100% of the time. Although, bi men have it way worse. I think your wife is genuine when she said it was just drunken girl talk and that she was intimidated into saying things because of her friends. My fears were confirmed she'd been talking to him for a good while. Imagine all the other crap she does drunk, only to blame it on being drunk . My late uncle had to watch his wife leave him on his sick bed because she couldn't bring herself so be seen that way, talking about "a whole me tending to a sick man, me I can't oh let his family do it ".. My guess is that she was only sorry he caught her and she's been crying because she's about to become a divorced mom. Or so that she wont identify you? As a not entirely straight guy myself I would be pretty mortified to go through this. Firstly: Even though it may be difficult: try and see this as an opportunity to strengthen your relationship. She said 'girls talk' and she has to have someone to talk to about stuff. Get used to me being stupid". Only one thing to do in this situation. I packed a bag, kissed the kids goodbye, and told them I was going to grandmas house to help her with something. Plus she essentially participated or at the least validated, them ridiculing his sexuality. If you want to save your marriage and restore trust some sort of therapy is probably necessary. My 2 cents is not worth much, but why did she not feel the need to tell you when she realized she let it slip from the drunken night? Do not just shrug it off if you stay. He said if i wanna get together for a drink or whatever to let him know. Then one friend says I could never be with a man who like men. Your life, you know the relationship better than us, but this is plenty to break a marriage. The biggest thing in my mind is, she shouldn't be saying things to appease her friends because she thinks they'll judge her for being with you. If she does in fact really care about you - she will wait. Reading this brought me back to heavy hearted times. And sometimes we have to forgive stupid people because we love them anyway. A DAD whose wife and kids stopped talking to him because he was covered in tattoos says he has no regrets. Has anyone gone through anything similar? Outing you accidentally is one thing, but there are a load of major no-nos here. They seem like they knew exactly what she was talking about, like it was a familiar topic. This story isnt funny but that first line killed me. If so, I think you should try. Part of thinks I should be able to accept her apology and shrug this off.maybe I overacting.but its all I can think about. Good luck bro! She continued to ignore my boundary. You pave the way for us, and I appreciate you tons. I dunno, this feels like a day time drama and not a real story! He said his wife told him what happened and he wanted to let me know he doesnt give a shit about me being bi and thinks the while situation is fucked. What she did was the lowest of the low and completely unacceptable. There are plenty things I could talk about my girlfriend and make fun of her for it to my mates, but I dont because what happens between us stays between us. I think that is a much worse betrayal, to laugh at him behind his back with these people he thinks are friends. You don't have to let it go. It's not their sex life that she discussed, it's HIS sexuality, something he stated he largely kept private. And the fact that you're now married and settled down with a woman means you probably have a preference for women overman anyways it's 2021 dude closet doesn't have a lot of people left in it and, needing it to still feel manly is the ultimate problem here. Don't ruin your relationship because of this. These fake stories are starting to piss me off. The Geni has escaped from the bottle, as there's no chance of putting it back in, you need to deal with the humiliation that you feel in how it was told. What else is she keeping from OP? I couldnt believe it. Why should he have to tell the whole world his sexuality? She sounds like she cares way too much about what these women think. Best of luck man. The only thing I can think is that she didnt want you to worry or feel badly about itbut its an important thing I would want mentioned to me (an ex sniffing around and trying to get back together with my boyfriend). If you do want to try to stay with her then, at minimum, you need to insist on marriage counseling immediately and you also need to insist that she completely cut the two homophobic/judgmental friends out of her life. I don't think you will recover from this. However you don't have to forgive and forget either; life isn't black and white. Exposing your sexuality and your sex life to her friends is a massive betrayal, but it has been covered by other quality comments. Sorry bro, you got something thinking to do After some begging I agreed to come home tomorrow and talk. The moment your sexuality became some kind of giggle fodder was when it really crossed the line. All I can tell you is that it will all pass in good time, and you deserve better, and if she cant be better it ought to be from someone else. I am so sorry this has happened to you. Your sex life sounds amazing. It's healthy and necessary. Book an appointment with a therapist, maybe meet up with the one friend who called you, and after a couple of days reassess whether or not you want to try to make things work. You are both going to be have to go to couples therapy and individual therapy sessions. People are weak sometimes. But please know this, todays generation can say theyre in the exact same boat as you and face no issues from same aged folks. Ugh. She didn't have your back and she put friendship with assholes over her partner in life. Dude that story is messed up. She is trying to write this shit off as a mistake. I would just ask why her friends opinions matter more than yous twos intimacy. Fuck her if she cannot be your confidant she's worthless, tell her to get rid of her hateful friends. I suggest therapy for you for your feelings and how you want the relationship to proceed. All the sudden I didnt know my wife. Your sexuality isn't really fodder to take the piss out of. 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