You use your fist to do the talking, so you beat people up if they don't agree with you? And he had wasted a great deal of my effort to correct the wrong judgment he had. So now that newly retired I have 2/3 of an empty space to fill. Gemini, ENTJmale. And yes, we are REALLY rare. My mind is always calculating periods of free time in a day suitable for sex. Unfortunately, I have always struggled with being diplomatic in a conflict. ENTJs will find this knowledge delightful. INTPs like that ENTJs are masters of efficiency, capable of accomplishing anything they set their minds to. I have NO patience for people who dont listen or are lazy or refuse to follow logic for the sake of making themselves feel good. I am ENTJ-T, you understand us completely. Theyreincredibly self-willedpeople, but they do know we cant always keep to ourselves and get things done, and they know how to exert themselves in a context, even if theyre not doing so in another context. I used to learn all these talents that people had in order to fit in.. random things.. all my life.. guitar, singing, learning Japenese, running, drawing, photography, violin.. fucking anything. I also agree that everything has to go their way otherwise they get mad so I try to compromise and or just do what he wants to avoid conflict. I try hard to stay up-to-date with the current liberal trend in how to talk to millennials without making them cry (circles back to whining and disrespect), but in the end, I really need stronger personalities on the team. Yes, ENTJ and Gemini here. The only way out is for him to reconnect with his extraverted thinking, usually in a dark corner away from prying eyes. In the grip of his inferior functions, an ENTJ will lose his extraverted thinking. As an ENTP I would not even hear them. INTPs should work toward accepting emotional expressions from ENFJs. I actually have to pretend to be someone else around co workers because they will hate me because my drive and just being me. What I don't like is that they're often kinda uptight, take themselves too seriously. I think Im an ENTJ thats more INTJ-like for time being, most probably due to some life experiences. I personally experincesd this my self and i never regret not approving them. We seem to be read as cold or indifferent but I don't feel that way at all. Whatva relief.idgaf who hates melol im a true ENTJ ARIEShated by all women and I'm happy to Intimidate and Intrigue. They can quickly become distracted when they are inspired to pursue other interests. 3-saying sorry has never been a problem to me, especially in accidental situations or if im really wrong, but if you don't deserve it you will never hear it from me. It is because the environment does not allow us me to. They can quickly become annoyed when they are reliant on other individuals. But as much as I like ENTJs, I couldn't eat a whole one . I try to calculate every step and observe people's actions. No one personality is better than the other. ENTJs have a passion for learning and admire people who beat the odds. INFJs are introverts and require their solitude to function. At a guess, these "irrational" methods work by giving you more confidence in what you already believe. The ENTJ will deal with the high-profile strategy stuff that's important. I am a great friend of my dad, who is an ENTJ and my cousin, who is possibly my best friend is ENTJ. Repetative and predicatable. In fact we know that they are idiots if they are wrong. Sexuality fascinates INTPs in a similar way to music.[] Adversely, ENTJs are protective of their emotions, goal-oriented, hyper-focused, focused on solutions rather than problems, and fiercely independent. But here's the thing, that only happens when they stop giving attention to their inner Fi(intraverted feeling-this is the psychologicalconcept that Jung talks about, all these are artices are pulling from the psychological work Jung has done). For a better experience, please enable JavaScript in your browser before proceeding. 7- A sagittarius. All the weaknesses you have described above i truely related to all of them, but my test results shows I'm an entp! So you're better than other people? The details is always my downfall when it comes to anything, and I'm on my best when I have a person with an SF personality with me. I must say, your insight and intuition are glorious in this article. Works better with a geocentric model, but oh well. These signs start every seasonAries kicks off spring, Cancer starts summer, Libra begins fall and Capricorn is the first winter sign. They can become focused on the emotion of a situation rather than the situation itself. As an ENTJ I do recognize a lot of patterns of your experience with a similar personality type, but when do we ever learn to not generalize the whole population when one or two does something (wrong)? 'if you are not like everybody else, then you are abnormal, if you are abnormal , then you are sick. Your diplomacy is really an offsetting excuse and a refusal to admit you're a shit person. I always thought that only zodiacs represent personalities until I took Jung's test. How to Integrate The Fool Archetype Into Your Life. They are very dominant in bed. In fact, the boys accept me better and don't ignore me. I thought it was the ENFJ's that were the ideal match. Of course, dont take it so seriously man. Especially when I give them my time and they don't change, I just ignore them. I alwayswonderedwhy I was different to all of the girls through primary school. I am a Classic ENTJ. All comments are moderated. Nevertheless, I seem to like them even though they can seem so overly critical. Why do INTPs like ENTJs? I did the same thing but went into crash mode trying to please others. If the INTPs concerns were justified and the fastest way to fix it and finish the project is to start over, that's the direction the ENTJ will go. Jayne is a B2B tech copywriter and the editorial director here at Truity. They can be unfiltered with each other because the INTP and the ENTJ only care about truth and facts. especially those slow ppl oof!! And this is personal criticism but his voice is very boring and annoying. I do understand. I also know that just by saying that, I'm technically, "Too full of myself" and that I should lose my big head. These things you say do descibe YOUR experience and yours alone. Wow!!!!!! ENTJs are highly independent and believe that everyone is responsible for their own fate in life. Btw your last words of "do you hate this dude?" I am a cancer sun aries moon, which is called the "warrior". (and dislike). I have struggled with weaker, less dominate superiors throughout my career. I will take the time to answer, even if really busy. While they do care deeply about their loved ones, it doesn't make it easier for them to really process or deal with their feelings. While these personality types can have their difficulties, it doesnt mean that they cant work well together. Regardless of the lack of exactness in the MTBI, the simple sharing of points of view between rational people is absolutely worthless if those views are not to be challenged. She told me that was the meanest thing anyone's ever said to her and I was thinking I gave her a compliment. Dating an ENTJ male currently and he has expressed he is dominant forceful commanding type. Which is why it's more confusing to find my true type! INTPs aren't natural planners while ENTJs like to organize things in advance which can be challenging. I do this because my morals say that it is the right thing to do, and I recognize that some people will have a hard time letting go of an issue until someone has acknowledged their mistake. They appreciate efficiency and work quickly to find solutions to problems to move forward. ENTJs belong to one of the two top-earning personality types are known for being bold and decisive. I can't help but "think" emotions rather than feel them. I had many issues regarding questioning my type ever since highschool and college. Aries sun, Capricorn moon, Leo rising. You may not mean to sound like you're giving orders, but the INTP will probably hear it that way. I'm not highly dominant & Commanding as said about entj types. She lives with her husband and daughters in the UK. I have a great amount of education and when I say something to someone Im working with, it comes from experienceand data. I say this humbly and by thinking, not feeling my emotions. 2. Traveller, there are no roads. INTP personality types are often caught-up in daydreams. Like the INFP, INTP s can easily ruminate on the possibilities of being with someone without ever acting it out. A forum community dedicated to all ranges of personality types and people. If anything I tend to think SO FAR in advence all I have time to do IS ruminate on every little aspect of what I am trying to do. A chain of replies to a deleted (and irrelevant) post have been removed. Oh and it will change your view on "Real Life" forever. ENTJs are extroverted, intuitive, thoughtful, and practice careful judgment in their everyday life. Intense with a second layer or intenseness. How can you people think you are entjs when you give significance to astrology. As INTJ female divorcing an XNTP after 20+ years, of all types I've dated this year, I'vedecided I may filter my futuredating pool for ENTJ-only as f**k - thank you - the TRUTH! Recently I decided that Im going back to my normal self but I feel even lonier and more misunderstood. This makes dissecting this personality type simple. Wow you certainly seem to fill the role of a entj now. They are assertive and enjoy taking charge in most situations. If the schedule fits then willingness is secondary. Some INTPs pursue a partner that is like a soulmate, while other people are looking for a best friend. You should respect other people's thoughts and consider everything they said because you can't be your own mirror. Saying sorry admits a mistake on the ENTJ's part, and ENTJs believe that mistakes are to be expected, fixed and learned from so they don't repeat the blunder. In Elizabeth Zott they'll find a kindred spirit of sorts. Subservience is an ENTJ's kryptonite - they cannot NOT lead, which is why they have no problem stepping up to the plate to call the shots. Read More Are ENTJs Good In Bed? INTPs can find the ENTJs stubbornness difficult in romantic relationships. Astrology is a hobby for people who do not understand science. But mostly what annoys me is that I have a need/tendency to explode outwards with my reasoning while they seem to want the most efficient and straightforward path from A to B. I havent lost yet. Not because I want that role but because groups need leadership, even if it ends up being temporary. You must bow down to me because of that and no complaining. Or a hobby for, say, astronomers who don't take astrology seriously My bf is entj and I literally told him you have to start acting like you don't care about what you're doing at work bc others were getting so jealous of him and trying to trip him up! Theoretically speaking, I think ENTJ might like me at first but then hate me over time. INTJ keeps ENTJ grounded while ENTJ spurs INTJ to action. And both type share similar traits and behavior! Prone to being lazy, INTPs benefit significantly from the spark that ENTJs provide to get them on track and actually doing something. It seems that people think this personality type is about power but for me it comes up like poking apparent leaders with sticks to make sure they actually have a pulse up there. The simple, the obvious bores them and anything they see as trivial or unimportant will be pushed away. I take issue whenproblems are identified without the intention of solving it, ESPECIALLY if said problem is relatively easy to resolve. This is not just a couch!'. Finally I also got to learn to love, be patient and have empathy. ENTJ here with a sun in leo n moon in virgo lol. INTP vs ENTJ will work incredibly well together. I think that was my first taste of depression. Typically, ENTJs, ENTPs, and ENFJs are attracted to INTPs. Theyll become arch-nemesis. Enneagram. INTP personality types, however, are more carefree and can often have a light-hearted approach. They do not want to admit they are jealous or that they feel threatened. Because I wanted to be like them. With this in mind, I take actions that can be modified as needed. For the ENTJ personality type, goals, achievements and ambition are some of the most important parts of their life. INTPs may trust ENTJs who allow them the freedom to be a little spontaneous and adventurous; ENTJs should be patient with INTPs, understanding their need for experience. Are stupid acting and wannabies. in an intimate relationship, the extraverted nature of the feeling judgement leads to a beneficial openness and empathic directness in responding to the partner's needs. Tell me when you think I am wrong and offera solution, and I will respect you. I too am an ENTJ and an Aries. Consequently, you're always on the edge and you're like walking time bombs with hair trigger tempers. But in my experience, ENTJs are even more protective of their emotions than their Introverted cousins. This site uses cookies to keep you logged in if you register. To claim you can handle your own personal growth is just silly. Almost everything on the list is true for me lol. Usually, I am accused of being arrogant and overbearing. This makes them quick to argue when the other person does not share the same viewpoint or easily offends the ISTP. Their focus may often cause them to have a more severe and stern outward appearance. No they don't have to be mean but it my example is more exciting in this way. Now I am reconnecting with myself and honestly, I could give two **** about how they perceive me or getting people to "like" me. I think that is not good. They see the logic in telling the truth and can trust others easily. One clear common ground between ENTJs and INTPs is their shared boredom when it comes to routine. Why? I originally posted this in another thread, but its topic was related to this one at the start and is starting to move closer. Its like my teenager voice came back again. I will say that the insecurity and jealousy is on the nose. Agree. You're emotionally retarded and self-centered with inferior Fi. In the end it just kind of manifests as having to put on a different face at work/ school. Oh, one of the really good reasons to be with an ENTJ is that the well developed ones are a good lay. Interesting post, despite the fact I've found it somewhat confusing. In addition, ISTPs have difficulty reading emotions and are logical and factual in their approach to relationships. If you are looking for an exciting partnership with an insatiable craving for intimacy, ENTJs are all that and much more. From my experience, that hasn't been true. #9 There is a distinction between quickly acting strategically and being impulsive. ENTJs just get what INTPs try to say because they are both intuitive thinkers. I go through the same . Every single woman in the world, no matter the culture and background, will be drawn to ENTJ types. I've always preferred "I" to "E" people as partners because I partly cannot stand the 'showmanship' of "E" types. I am also a student of esoteric subjects and an amateur astrologer. Nothing else. One is a selfless but patient "planner" that never gets around to actually doing it/ doesn't want to ever start, and the other is a self-serving hot-blooded pursuer. You can find more information about the five love languages here. INTPs and ENTJs are cynical, critical, and love discussing high-level topics such as government, education, science, and spirituality. Their open-mindedness, intuition, and constant state of analysis will lead them to build a good foundation of trust in their partner if that partner is worthy of trust. From the MBTI perspective, the best match for ENTJs is deemed to be INTP. You must log in or register to reply here. The Fora platform includes forum software by XenForo, VerticalScope Inc., 111 Peter Street, Suite 600, Toronto, Ontario, M5V 2H1, Canada. I also try blending in, but it feels too forced. INTPs value ENTJs reasoning. Theyre the trendsetters and trendspotters, the ones who get the party started and the crowd hyped. INTPs dislike when ENTJs get so confident in their ideas that they cannot see their pitfalls and biases. Seems that there are just so many ways to make an ENTJ. 8-when expressing my feelings, they are misinterpreted, and most of the time misinterpreted as anger, my emotions run deep and often times but things run deep and often times my anger is my weakness, if im sad usually i close mysf of to just contemplate and find a solution, if I don't find a solution I really get out of my element and feel lost 9-acting before thinking has been an issue growing up, but hey I'm a gambler and I want to see results as soon as possible. Plus, INTP would gladly allow . They are also more likely to care about what other people think and appreciate input from other individuals. If you aren't making mistakes you aren't trying hard enough. Please be courteous. INTPs lead with Introverted Thinking - a function that seeks to verify, rationalize and understand its environment without bias. What we're saying here is that an ENTJ functions best with a wing (wo)man. . You can tell me what to do, but you can't tell me not to think you are bossy if you like telling people what to do. 100% agree. Because of the differences between these personalities, ENTJs may often find it difficult to get along with INTPs and can quickly become angry with how their traits clash. They appreciate constructive criticism. ..same here..ENTJ-T and a Virgo..i am really having a hard time understanding my female friends who say i can't empathize with them..i connect more with my male friends who say that i have a "male" brain. but my friends think I am charming, intelligent and friendly but idk if they know that I choose them to gain something from them (hobbies, success), love to have meaningful conversation with like-minded ppl who won't beat arounf the bush.